The G spot took the spotlight for nearly 60 years before researchers “took down the myth”. Some still believe in it though, and the rest of us are left wondering – if it does exist – where is the G spot?

Over half a century ago, one Doctor Gräfenberg from Germany released his discovery of a certain part of the female anatomy, a walnut like spot inside the vagina, that when stimulated would being women around the world to climax and in some cases, ejaculation.

Everyone around the world threw up their hands and cried huzzah because, finally, we had an answer on how to make a girl squirt, and we entered the era of the G Spot race, as study after study, article after article tried to explain and teach us all this one simple trick to make a girl ejaculate!

A year ago, Italian researchers came out and declared that the G-spot was in fact a lie, and that there was no magical walnut spot that makes girls squirt. Everyone around the world threw up their hands and cried huzzah because it meant it wasn’t their lack of sexual prowess causing their lack of G-spot stimulating orgasms!

But  women still claim that they are able to reach orgasm and ejaculation with stimulation from this elusive G-Spot, and the question everyone wants to know is this;

Does it exist? And more importantly – where is the G spot?

Let’s start by explaining what the G-spot is. The female pleasure system (the nerves and stuff) is actually pretty complicated. Unlike a penis, a large part of it is hidden. You have the clit which is a nifty little button on the outside, but the clit is actually rather large and reaches back inside too. Now, if you put your finger inside a lady and crook it upwards, you’ll hit the G-spot, also known as the “female prostate” which some say is part of the same thing the clitoris is part of.

It’s all fairly vague though, as scientifically speaking, we can dissect a lady and point at it and say “That there is the G-spot”. Women have very weird ways of working, and pleasure derives from lots of small sensations piling up. This could be stimulation of the clit, stimulation of the vagina, different hormones in play depending on the time of the month, and a whole bunch of other things. If you touch one part of the female pleasure centre, it’ll trigger other parts.

How should you touch your girl’s g spot?

It’s like one of those Chinese bamboo puzzle boxes. Certain movements and stimulation of certain areas will stimulate or help stimulate and accentuate other certain areas. To really add to the fun, nearly all women react differently, depending on how sensitive she is in the retrospective areas.

That’s why for some women, the G-Spot really can stimulate them to instant orgasm, and help them ejaculate. Now if you meet women and you want to test out whether or not they are G Spot women, all you have to do is make the “come hither” motion with your fingers when you’re fingering her. The G spot is in the topside of the vagina, often about half way up.

If this doesn’t stimulate her to orgasm, you can simply try and do other things. I certainly wouldn’t say the G spot doesn’t exist, because purely the hype and placebo effect could affect some women, heightening their arousal which helps with achieving orgasms.

I’ll also confess that I was once with a guy who did manage to make me squirt a little tiny bit using the “come hither” technique. It’s never happened again since, but at least I know it’s possible!

Next time your friends want to google “Where is the g spot?” just send them over this article and help them out