Today I heard the term “sploshing” for the first time. It’s a popular, albeit niche, fetish that involves smearing wet and messy substances over your body. It’s can be referred to as “wet and messy play” shortened to WAM.

First, I ask people on twitter if they had heard of sploshing. Then I ask peopler what they thought the word means.

 

Urban dictionary  describes sploshing as smearing food over your partner.  You can also lick the food off afterwards. However it doesn’t have to include food. People can use mud or lubricant instead.

If you fantasise about two girls wrestling in some jelly, that counts as sploshing. Custard, ice-cream, chocolate sauce and honey can all be used. Non food substances include mud or lubricants, therefore if two girls wrestling in some mud it also counts.

There are lots of reasons why sploshing appeals to people. Some love the idea of getting ridiculously messy. It feels primal yet playful. Others enjoy the feel of having different textures rubbed over their bodies. It can be like a messier version of an oil massage. A lot of people simply enjoy playing with their food.

Camgirls often try involving sploshing into their shows. It looks really fun, and adds a lot of excitement and variation to normal shows. In addition, it can create a very visual show.

Sploshing is very popular with people who are into BDSM. People can use blindfolds to heighten other senses, such as touch. Your hands can be tied up, and some people like to include aspects of humiliation into the play.

Of course, you don’t need to include those things. It can be a really fun activity to try out with your partner if you both want to try something new and a bit silly. A lot of people enjoy throwing a cream pie onto their partner’s faces.

Finally, I asked twitter if they have ever watched sploshing porn, or experienced it in their personal lives.

Like me, it seems most people haven’t heard of sploshing. I’m sure a lot of people have experimented with food during sex before. If you have ever tried licking icecream or whipped cream off your partner, you should look into trying sploshing. It’s like an even messier version. Don’t forget to lay down plastic or towels, or do it in a bathtub though! The cleanup can be just as messy as the the activity otherwise.