Anal play has been getting more and more popular, with this year’s sales of buttplugs higher than ever before. But when it comes to the question of ass-to-mouth contact, how do people feel? Is rimming hot or not? Is it safe and hygienic? Does it feel good? There’s so many factors to consider, but when it comes down to it, the answer to is rimming hot or not, it’s all personal preference. Personally, I find the idea of rimming very hot.
With that worry out of the way, next we need to ask if it feels good? I have personally never given or received a rim job. It’s something that I never thought about doing before and non of my previous partners has ever brought it up either. I do enjoy anal play, from the butt plugs I’ve used on cam, to being fingered by a partner and even the limited anal sex experience I’ve had. I believe that I’m fairly sensitive down there, and I would probably enjoy rimming even more than I do everything else I’ve tried thus far. I just get a feeling.
The idea of receiving turns me on. For some reason, I feel that I’d actually be less embarrassed than if someone simply goes down on me normally (which I always get very embarrassed about!). I’m not sure if it’s partly because of the taboo or that I’m personally very sensitive in that area. The thought of giving however? I’m not particularly interested in doing that. At first, I thought this was a very hypocritical way of thinking, and very selfish. The fact is, different people will enjoy and want different things.
For instance, a lot of men are turned on by the idea of giving, because they are attracted to the ass and love the extra kinkiness. They won’t however have feelings of wanting to receive because they don’t personally enjoy being played with anally. Some men also dislike the idea of grooming the anal area, and thus can’t enjoy the idea of their partner taking in a face full of hairy ass.
The best thing to do is to talk to your partner about rimming first. Find out how they feel about it, if they want to try and what things they want to try. It should be fun and experimental, but it’s completely ok if one of neither of you want to do it. It’s no different to any other kink or fetishes. If you do decide that it is something both parties want to try, then you can start of slowly and explore with each other at your own pace. It’s important to also communicate during the act, telling your partner what you like, what actions make you feel good and to encourage them.