Man, I’m not saying I would be a male escort, but, damn it, wouldn’t it be an entertaining job? You get paid to have sex with women on the regular, while getting to know just enough about them to help your personal dating life, too, which is a pretty awesome benefit of the whole gig.
And, because an Australian man named Ryan James, who is, in fact, a male escort, does get to bed so many women all the time — earning around $4,300 each night for his services — he knows a hell of a lot about how to get a woman off. It’s with that knowledge that, with confidence, James can help other guys with their sexual performance. What a guy, right?
Recently speaking with Australia’s “The Morning Show”, James not only talked about how he went from a corporate job in finance to a nightly gig having sex with women — and being paid for it — but also what he finds his clients enjoy the most while in the bedroom. Here’s some of what the male escort had to say, via the New York Post.
“I didn’t tell them [my family] at first. When I did get started, I told my friends pretty quickly. My family found out a little later. It was a bit of a mixed reaction. They don’t treat me any differently because of it.”
He added: “It’s probably not the kind of thing parents would choose for their children, but they still treat me well.”
As you might expect, it’s probably not too surprising to hear that Ryan James wasn’t thrilled to tell his friends and family about his male escort career. However, as mentioned above, his experiences have led him to some top-notch advice about girls, which is one thing that all guys can benefit from.
According to James’ website, he’s “courteous, polite and a gentleman at all times,” which goes a long way in making a girl feel safe and wanted. In addition to displaying that confidence and traits, here’s what James found most of his clients wanted the most, per the New York Post article.
James told how his most popular request was a luxury dinner date, which includes six hours of pampering or pleasure, an overnight sleepover and breakfast in the morning.
“Pretty much every single client that I see there’s some companionship element to the booking,” he said.
“From what I see, men are more focused on the sexual side of things. Women are focused on the sex too, they wouldn’t come to see me without it, but we spend a lot of time talking as well.”
While plenty of these girls that Ryan James meets could, presumably, meet guys elsewhere like bars or online dating apps, he knows that they want a unique experience where the whole night is about them. It’s why he’s so generous with each client, making sure her needs are met. And, from what we can tell, it doesn’t make much to leave a girl happy, just being nice and open.