Kinky sex is amazing. What can make it even more amazing is when a dominant girlfriend who’s both experimental and passionate is around to have it with every day. Unfortunately, kinky sex isn’t for everyone, but, hey, that’s not a reason to get down.

For those guys out there who want to get down and dirty and are still looking for the right girl, we’ve got a few tips that might help solve that problem. Yep, today, we’re telling you how to find a dominant girlfriend. Take notes, initiate these tips and go have some of the best kinky sex on planet earth — because, really, a dominant girlfriend is the best kind of girlfriend.

Hire someone

It may not be the most ethical route in the world, but, c’mon, it’s 2018 and everyone seems to be finding their partners on dating apps or by sliding into DMs on social media. That said, hiring someone to come have kinky sex with isn’t the biggest sin in the world, so, if you’re feeling the urge to satisfy yourself but just can’t find the right girl, searching escort services might be an option worth considering.

Dating apps

Sure, we’ve mentioned a few of the dating apps that are best-known for strictly hooking up, but, just for a second, forget Tinder, Bumble or a few other popular ones. That’s because, believe it or not, there are a few dating apps that are specifically designed for all your kinky sex needs. Apps such as KinkD, Kinkstr and Whiplr, among others, give users the simplest way to live out their sexual fantasies.

Swinger clubs

Yep, swinger clubs still exist and, yep, they’re still an option for you to go get yourself a dominant girlfriend who’s really into kinky sex. Of course, there’s a good chance that the girl is in some kind of relationship — whether open or otherwise — but, hey, it’s a chance to partake in some action and experiment with what you may or may not like. Just remember that swinger clubs are made for this kind of thing, and stories shouldn’t be taken out of the four walls of the building.

Uncommon places

If you’re just hoping to find a dominant girlfriend by striking up a conversation at a bar or restaurant of swiping all day on some online dating app, good luck, but don’t expect it to happen. That’s no to say there aren’t girls out there who are into kinky sex, but, according to kinksters, it’s uncommon places guys should go to in order to find their perfect sex partner. That means uncommon spots like S&M clubs, lesbian bars and the aforementioned swinger clubs. Oh, and if you really want to expand your horizons, finding a munch — with is a get-together for single kinky people, usually held at a restaurant or bar, to talk to each other.

Sex parties

Sex parties are an old tried and true way to find kinky sex and, just maybe, a dominant girlfriend. Sure, they’re difficult to find and, even more so, harder to get an invite to, but they are a great way to experience plenty of sexual activities that you wouldn’t otherwise. Don’t expect to have much one-on-one time with a girl at one, but, hey, if it’s just kinky sex and someone to take charge and dominate you in the bedroom, this could be the right spot for you.