Spanking in the bedroom has long been one of the most popular sex moves out there. After all, it doesn’t take much to get caught up in the moment while bending over a girl and just spanking the hell out of her butt. It’s fun, it’s a little wild and it adds a little element of being rough — which most girls are really into.

As simple as spanking is during sex, though, it can be more than just a little love tap on the ass of a girl. In fact, there are plenty of different ways to spank your girl — you just need to know what feels best to her, as well as discover how to do it right for her to be turned on the most.

Well, you’re in luck, gents, because we’ve got some spanking tips that will help you and your lady love doing it every time you two get down and dirty. So take these as your guide and follow along.


Remember when we gave you anal sex tips and told you that, above anything, communicating with your partner about doing it before doing it was most important? Well, much like anal, spanking is similar.

Look, most girls are into some sort of light tapping when she’s having sex with you, but not all girls. And the last thing you want to do is piss her off or make her feel uncomfortable by doing it and having her tell you to stop. Talk dirty to her and simply ask if she wants to be spanked before doing it, then do what she says.

Be safe

Is you girl going to get some disease from spanking? No. However, being safe while spanking has nothing to do with swapping some STDs or anything like that, but, more than anything, mental trauma that could come as aftermath.

That’s right, if you and your girl aren’t talking about spanking before it happens — and she feels too inferior or dominated — there’s a possibility that it could lead to trust issues, which is never a good thing.

Adjust your speeds

Just as you would while thrusting your girl during sex, it’s important to pay attention with your frequency, pace and intensity while spanking, too. You don’t want to be the guy who just spanks her every single thrust, using both hands on both cheeks — well, unless that’s how she really likes it.

Don’t overthink your spanking, but, generally speaking, if a girl’s in the doggy position, it’s most popular to slap her ass once every couple of thrusts. Again, though, communicate with your girl to see if and what she likes.

Role play

As we mentioned above, spanking while having sex is typically done with your hand. That’s great and easy, but, if you’re girl’s into the whole thing, it might be worth trying out a little role play to spice things up.

We all know dressing up and pretending to be someone or something you’re not is a major sex fetish, so, when it comes to spanking, see if bringing out some props or sex toys would make the whole experience better.

Don’t think she’s the only one to be spanked

Guys, many of want to be the dominant beasts during sex, but, believe it or not, some girls like to take charge, too! We know, it’s not too surprising to hear that, but is it important to understand and adjust your mentality accordingly.

That said, don’t think a girl is the only one who should be spanked during sex, as plenty of guys enjoy the occasional slap of the ass, face or chest. Again, it’s not for everyone, but when a girl’s spanking you, it usually means she’s comfortable and really turned on.